The Choice to Be Yourself (Practicing Authentic Living)

Each and every day, you get to make a choice. It is a conscious choice to show up exactly as you are—or to hide behind a mask.

For today’s Mindful Monday, I’m sharing a concept I often speak about in my keynote presentations: the tools for living an authentic life. We often think authenticity is just a static trait—something we either have or don't—but in reality, authenticity is a practice. It is something we must choose, over and over again, in any given moment.

Are You Wearing a Mask?

Throughout the day, we are presented with so many opportunities to be ourselves, yet we often fall into roles or "molds" that feel safer than showing our true hearts. Do you recognize any of these?

  • The "I'm Fine" Mask: Answering "How are you?" with a pretend smile and a quick "Fine!" when things aren't actually okay.

  • The Role Play: Acting only as the "Mom," the "Yoga Teacher," or the "Employee," thinking we have to behave in a way that fits a specific mold rather than allowing our true personality to shine through the role.

  • The Pretense: Hiding our genuine feelings or opinions just to fit in or make others feel more comfortable.

Your Practice This Week

Living authentically doesn't mean you have to change your life; it means you change how you show up to your life. I invite you to pause throughout your day and ask yourself one simple question:

"Am I being true to myself in this moment?"

Realize that you have the power to express yourself authentically. You are worthy, deserving, and perfect enough exactly as you are—without the masks, without the roles, and without the pretense.

Practice being authentic this week. You owe it to yourself to show up as YOU.

Have a beautiful day. Namaste.

New Year, New Connections

January is the season of renewal. If you’ve been feeling a bit isolated or want to surround yourself with like-minded women who value growth and mindfulness, this is the perfect time to check out my Authentic Living Circle. It’s the "inner work" that makes all your "outer work" more meaningful. Join for an open session on Wednesday, January 28 at 8 am. Learn more and register here.

Finding Freedom to Live an Authentic Life

True transformation requires letting go of the internal weight that holds you back. My book, "Shedding Shame," is a guide to confronting inner resistance, releasing the stories that no longer serve you, and finding the freedom to live authentically. Make this your year of courage. Learn more and order your copy today!